Top 10 Things Every Bride Forgets (But Really Shouldn’t) Insider wedding wisdom from a venue owner who’s seen 300+ “I Dos”
Top 10 Things Every Bride Forgets (But Really Shouldn’t)
Insider wedding wisdom from a venue owner who’s seen 300+ “I Dos” in 3 years.
After hosting over 300 weddings at my mountain-view venue in North Georgia, I’ve learned a thing or two about what brides forget—and what really matters. No matter how many checklists you’ve triple-checked, something will slip through the cracks. Don’t worry, though. Most of them are fixable (or at least make for a good story later—like the groom who forgot his pants... but that’s for another day).
Here are the top 10 things brides most often forget—but really shouldn’t—and how to make sure they don’t sneak past you.
1. A Steamer (Not Just for the Dress)
You’d be amazed how many photos have been saved by a good steamer. It’s not just about the gown—bridesmaids’ dresses, groomsmen suits, table linens, and even veils can wrinkle in transit. Keep a steamer on standby in the bridal suite. It’s one of those things you won’t need—until you really need it.
2. A Real Rain Plan
Hope for sunshine, plan for puddles. I always tell my couples that “a plan” means more than just saying “we’ll figure it out.” Covered spaces, clear umbrellas, or an indoor backup that still feels special are key. At The Heritage at Milford Family Farm, we build a rainy-day timeline during every planning call, just in case. https://theheritageatmilfordfamilyfarm.com
3. Vendor Meals & Break Schedules
Your vendors are part of the team making your day run smoothly—so don’t forget to feed them! Hungry photographers and tired DJs don’t perform at their best. Include vendor meals in your catering count and designate a break window during dinner service.
4. Phone-Free Ceremony Signs
Unplugged ceremonies are magical… until Aunt Linda blocks your first kiss with an iPad. A tasteful sign at the ceremony entrance (and a reminder from your officiant) makes all the difference. Want people to be in the moment? Give them permission.
5. Extra Time for Hair & Makeup
This is the #1 timeline mistake I see—every time. Something runs behind. Someone’s lashes need redoing. Add 30 to 45 minutes more than you think you need. Trust me, it's much better to sip champagne while waiting than rush into your dress.
6. Breakfast. And Water. Seriously.
Adrenaline is real—but so is dehydration. I’ve seen brides faint because they “forgot to eat.” Designate a friend or planner to keep snacks and water coming all morning. We call it a “Glamma's Snack Basket” at our venue, and it’s a game-changer.
7. Clean-Up Crew or Pick-Up Plan
After the last song and final sparkler, who’s grabbing the gifts? The leftover cake? The centerpieces you spent hours DIY’ing? Make a plan. Assign clean-up roles and know your venue’s policy for item pickup the next day.
8. The Marriage License
This one seems obvious, but it’s surprisingly common. Make sure someone—not you—is in charge of bringing the marriage license to the ceremony. Your planner or maid of honor is a good pick. Bonus tip: Sign it early in the day while everyone’s still sober and organized.
9. Someone to Hold Your Bouquet & Vows
When you walk down the aisle, someone needs to take your bouquet. When it’s time for vows, someone needs to hand them to you. Assign these small roles ahead of time. Your brain will thank you in the moment.
10. A Moment for Just the Two of You
Your wedding day flies by. One thing I always encourage: schedule 5–10 minutes post-ceremony just for you and your partner. Sneak away for a toast, a quiet hug, or a sunset photo. It’s those tiny, private moments that often mean the most.
Final Thoughts
Weddings don’t have to be perfect to be incredible. When you’re surrounded by people who love you, the little hiccups fade. Planning ahead helps—but choosing joy in the moment is the real secret.
And if you're planning a beautiful wedding and want more support, timelines, or ideas from someone who’s done this hundreds of times, I’d love to welcome you to The Heritage at Milford Family Farm.
We help couples create unforgettable weddings without the stress. https://theheritageatmilfordfamilyfarm.com
About the Author
Allison Milford is the owner of The Heritage at Milford Family Farm, a North Georgia wedding venue known for its breathtaking views, deep family roots, and true Southern hospitality. With over 300 weddings coordinated, Allison is not just a venue owner but a trusted planner and creative problem-solver for couples across the Southeast with reputable problem solving knowledge as a nurse of 26 years and a successful venue owner for over a decade.
Her story has been featured in VoyageATL:
https://voyageatl.com/interview/exploring-life-business-with-allison-milford-of-the-heritage-at-milford-family-farm/
She is also a proud member of the Gilmer Chamber of Commerce:
https://gilmerchamber.chambermaster.com/list/member/the-heritage-at-milford-family-farm-5271.htm
When she’s not coordinating weddings, she’s spending time with her family, managing life on the family farm, or chasing after her granddaughters MJ and Millie—she known lovingly online as “Glamma”